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CONSCIOUS UNCOUPLER
Now, master your divorce.
Discovery the strategic, faster, and more peaceful path to freedom and a powerful new beginning.

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You're not looking for a war.
You're looking for a resolution.
Most people get swallowed by the traditional divorce system: endless conflict, expensive legal battles, and a future dictated by others. But you, as a Conscious Uncoupler, know there's a smarter way.
You value respect, fairness, and a clear path forward for yourself and your family.


I'm TamaraEsq.
For over two decades, I've been in the trenches as an attorney, a master mediator, a settlement negotiator, and most recently, a concierge divorce consultant. I've personally guided hundreds of clients – from high net worth entrepreneurs to busy parents – through life's monumental transitions.
I founded Truce Resolutions because I refuse to accept that divorce has to be devastating. And I created Divorce Wave: the first and only on-demand divorce coaching app because I’m obsessed with empowering people to approach this life shift with strategy, confidence, and absolute control.
My mission is to fully support individuals experiencing life's most difficult challenges so they can embrace these transitions as an opportunity to transform and thrive.
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You now have clarity about your best options based on your unique situation. The only thing separating you from your peaceful, powerful, next chapter is taking action!
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Tom N.
★★★★★
Working with Tamara has been nothing short of amazing. In all honesty, I don’t think I could have gotten through this without her. The whole idea of a ‘divorce coach’ was completely foreign to me. Not only has Tamara made the legal process seem less daunting and uncertain, but she’s helped me to realize that I am not responsible for my spouse’s happiness, and this realization has freed me to claim this next chapter of my life with hope and without guilt.
Rahim J.
★★★★★
People don’t know what they don’t know. Most people are not aware that they can decide and guide how their divorce goes with the right guidance and navigation tools. This app teaches and inspires one with what is possible...I feel like it can help put the user in an empowered hopeful space going in, and help keep them inspired and motivated to optimize through the process instead of getting lost in potential drama.
Ryan A.
★★★★★
After Tamara taught me powerful communication tools, I began to feel compassion not only towards my ex-spouse, but for myself as I have also struggled with communication over the years. Her guidance has not improved collaboration with my co-parent, but it has improved my relationship with my current partner as well. I wish I had discovered these tools sooner.
Dorit W.
★★★★★
Validation is so important. Instruction is so important. Motivation is so important. Divorce Wave has them all. TamaraEsq has the advantage of being a lawyer/mediator/coach by training, insight of being someone who has gone through this process, the gift of being an excellent writer and speaker, and the depth and genius of being a well-read and insightful person. I loved the philosophy lessons as well.
Gladys R.
★★★★★
Tamara struck the perfect balance, being compassionate and understanding while still challenging me to think deeper and take action when I needed to. She pushed me to grow without ever being judged.
Shawn R.
★★★★★
I've started setting firmer boundaries, communicating more clearly with my ex, and making choices based on what's best for my future instead of staying stuck in the past. Tamara pushed me to look at things from a different angle, but always in a way that felt respectful and constructive. The balance made a huge difference.
Current consulting client
★★★★★
Quick note to say thank you and how I truly appreciate your advice, wisdom and support!
The heaviness is not so heavy … I am thankful this morning.
Lauren F.
★★★★★
I think breaking down divorce experiences and then providing easy to follow steps is SO incredibly useful.
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Don't let uncertainty dictate your future any longer. The Conscious Uncoupler path is about choosing integrity, choosing respect, and choosing your absolute best outcome.
