STOP REACTING. START STRATEGIZING

Create Your Roadmap From Day One—Or Get Unstuck From a Crisis—In Just 90 Minutes.

 

Stop Reacting. Start Strategizing.

CALIFORNIA residents only.

Let's get your divorce back on track, in just 90 minutes.  Engagement agreement will be provided and must be signed before our session.

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THE PROBLEM: YOU ARE OVERWHELMED AND NEED DIRECTION

Right now, you are likely in one of two places:

  1. The "Tidal Wave” Phase: You realize the Divorce is happening, but it feels like you’re in the path of a tidal wave and the shock and overwhelm is starting to hit. You’re terrified of making a mistake that ruins your finances or hurts your kids. You’re overwhelmed and have no idea what your best options are or where to begin; or you’re about to write a $5,000 retainer check to a lawyer just to make the anxiety stop.

  2. The "Sinking Ship" Crisis: You’re months in. The legal bills are piling up and you’re burning cash, the fighting is toxic, and you are no closer to a settlement than when you started. You feel like you’re in a sinking ship.

The Harsh Reality: Traditional divorce is broken. It’s designed to pit you against each other while draining your bank account. If you treat this like a legal battle instead of a business negotiation, you have already lost.

THE SOLUTION: BECOME THE CAPTAIN OF YOUR DIVORCE

You don't need to "lawyer up" and start a war. You need to Slow Down to Speed Up.

You need to become the Captain to steer this ship. You need a Strategy.

Introducing...

THE DIVORCE STRATEGY INTENSIVE

A 90-Minute Laser-Focused Session to Create Your Strategic Action Plan.

This is not therapy. This is not a generic legal consult. This is a working strategy session where we roll up our sleeves, review all of your resources and your options, and design your way out of the chaos.

What’s Included:

Here is exactly what you get when you book today:

✅ The 90-Minute Strategy Intensive: You complete a quick intake and upload any necessary documents so I come prepared. We get on Zoom. We tear down the fear. We review all options. We build the plan. We tackle your biggest fires immediately and also create a long-term strategy. (Value: $750)

✅ Your Custom Action Plan: You don't leave empty-handed. You walk away with a customized Action Plan containing your best strategy, step-by-step next steps, and helpful resources to guide you along the way. No more guessing. (Value: $400)

✅ 6 Months of The Divorce Wave App: This is your 24/7 co-pilot. Triggered by a nasty text at 10 PM? Need to calm down before a mediation? Planning to tell the kids? My app is in your pocket with guided audio "waves" to stop the spiral and get you back on track, fast! It also contains a full library of knowledge from our team of experts to guide you through every step of your divorce. (Value: $90)

✅ Divorce Day One Ebook: Answers to the 100+ most burning questions (Alimony? Custody? Taxes?) so we don't have to waste our precious 90 minutes on the basics. (Value: $20)

TOTAL VALUE: $1,260!

YOUR INVESTMENT: $450

(That is less than the cost of one hour with a mediocre attorney who won't give you half this much strategy.)

BOOK YOUR INTENSIVE - $450

WHO IS THIS FOR?

  • California Residents Only

  • The Planner: You haven't filed yet. You want to do this right by understanding all of your options. You want to protect your assets and your peace.

  • The Parent: You want to look back and know you did everything you could to manage the conflict and keep your kids out of the mess.

  • The Frustrated Client: You are stuck. You’ve burned through your retainer. Calls are going unanswered. You need a "Lifeline" to pull you out of the muck and get the case moving again.

  • Mediation Participant: You've agreed to mediation (that's wise!) and now you need to know your numbers cold, prepare proposals, decide non-negotiables and bargaining chips, and go in feeling confident and ready.

Strategy and Mindset are the two most important Divorce Superpowers. Learn both here!

Don't Wait. Start HERE!

WHY TRUST ME?

I’m Tamara Arnold. I’m not just an attorney. I’m a Mediator, a Divorce Consultant, and the Founder of Divorce Wave.

I have spent 20 years navigating the legal system and negotiating settlements for my clients. I know that 97% of cases settle without a trial and 80% of divorces happen without attorneys involved. I built this protocol to help you skip the war and get straight to the peace. My philosophy is simple: Grace, Grit, & Integrity. We will be kind, but we will take no sh*t.

YOUR TWO CHOICES

Option 1: Keep doing it alone. Keep reacting to every email. Keep losing sleep. Keep guessing. Keep burning through money. Risk making a mistake that costs you years of happiness.

Option 2: Book the Divorce Strategy Intensive. Spend 90 minutes with an expert. Get a roadmap. Regain your sanity. Start steering your ship toward the future you deserve.

Spots are limited. I am one person, and my calendar fills up fast.

BOOK YOUR INTENSIVE - $450

Here’s what others are saying about their experience:

"Nothing short of amazing!"


Working with Tamara has been nothing short of amazing. In all honesty, I don’t think I could have gotten through this without her. The whole idea of a "divorce coach" was completely foreign to me.  Not only has Tamara made the legal process seem less daunting and uncertain, but she’s helped me to realize that I am not responsible for my spouse’s happiness, and this realization has freed me to claim this next chapter of my life with hope and without guilt.

Tom N.
Physician

"The heaviness is not so heavy."

 

Quick note to say thank you and how I truly appreciate your advice, wisdom, and support! The heaviness is not so heavy... I am thankful this morning.

Satisfied Client

"The Best Support!"

I wanted to thank you again for last night and meeting with me. I think this process is really going to help me in ways that I didn’t know were available. This is the best support I’ve received!

Nicole
Satisfied Client

"I'm communicating more clearly with my Ex."

 

I've started setting firmer boundaries, communicating more clearly with my ex, and making choices based on what's best  for my future instead of staying stuck in the past. Tamara pushed me to look at things from a different  angle, but always in a way that felt respectful and constructive. The balance made a huge difference.

 

Shawn R.
First Responder

"Tamara pushed me to grow without ever being judged."

 

Tamara struck the perfect balance, being compassionate and understanding while still challenging me to think deeper and take action when I needed to. She pushed me to grow without ever being judged.

 

Gladys R.
Medical professional

"Above and beyond!"

We wanted to setup a trust and guardianship for our kids in case anything were to happen to us, and Tamara at Truce Resolutions did an amazing job guiding us through the process and making sure all the loose ends were tied up. She was sensitive, quick to respond and went above and beyond in the little details making sure everything was the way we want it. Highly Recommend!

 

Lauren K.
Posted to Google Business

Legal Disclaimers

While Tamara M. Arnold is an attorney licensed to practice in California, the Divorce Strategy Intensive is a consulting and strategy session and Tamara will be serving in a limited scope capacity for a flat fee.  Ms. Arnold shall not draft legal pleadings, file documents, negotiate with opposing counsel, make decisions on your case, or appear in court on your behalf. 

Your strategy session will not be confirmed until you review and sign the LIMITED SCOPE ENGAGEMENT AGREEMENT AND FEE CONTRACT. 

Additional Terms, Conditions, and Privacy Policy may be found at https://www.truceresolutions.com/legal

 

BOOK YOUR INTENSIVE - $450